Also, "he doesnt want it to ruin us"??? Sex doesn't ruin relationships, nonconsensual sex does, but if having sex ruins your relationship then there was an underlying issue there beyond the sex. The simple fact that he's so intent on waiting is a warning sign to me because there's an implication that he might not be being completely open with you there. It could mean just that he's nervous about his ability to please you, it could also mean that he's a closeted conservative, or is sex-negative..
I say learn to love your boobs the way that they are. If he's a superficial douche and judges you for having normal tits instead of the bullshit image of always perky big breasts that society and mainstream porn sells us then ultimately he's not someone who deserves your time and interest anyway. Boobs come in all shapes and sizes, a guy who can't understand and appreciate that doesn't deserve to play with them.
So me and my boyfriend have been together for a over a year (off and on, 4 months straight now) and i know for sure that i love him. we are becoming alot more sexual now an we arent planning to have sex because he doesnt want it to ruin us especially if we arent ready and theres no commitment (engagement, marriage). well im a 34D and when i wear a bra everyone thinks i have these perfect perky titties when really they are saggy! and my boyfriend also thinks this so he always ask to see them! im really self concious about them and im very afraid he wont like it or he’ll be disappointed, his reaction is definately gonna be the worst! but like i said we are being more sexual and are planning to do other stuff but i dont wanna do anything that requires me to take off my bra(lol i know thats silly)! i cant get a breast lift, so thats not an option! please help!! what do i do?!